What I Learned This Week
This week’s lesson is all about overcoming fears.
Over the weekend, we went to visit my brother in Fairfax, Virginia. Typically, a trip like this would have my husband driving while I sat carefree in the passenger seat. Unfortunately, as we all know by now, he wasn’t able to come with us due to his knee injury.
My sister and brother-in-law came along for the ride. I was so glad to have them with me for the company and the moral support. On the way down, I drove us to a rest stop in Maryland and tossed the keys to my BIL. I figured I made it over half way, I did my part.
On the way back, I decided it was time to put my “Big Girl Undies” on and try to drive the whole way home. Everything was going swimmingly until we ran into a pretty nasty thunderstorm on 95 in Delaware. Driving in thunderstorms is another huge fear for me. The pelting rain mixed with trees flailing all around in the wind is enough to send me into panic mode. As the first large raindrop landed on the windshield, I revealed to my passengers, “Did I ever tell you guys that I have anxiety attacks when driving in thunderstorms?” I heard a very sarcastic “Great!” from the group.
My BIL suggested that I pull over and let him drive. But I told myself I could do it and to my amazement…I did!
We pulled into the driveway and I said a quick prayer of thanks for allowing me to get everyone home in one piece. I felt like a little kid that just learned how to ride their bike. I was full of a sense of accomplishment.
Having said all that, I don’t plan on driving on a road trip like that again any time soon. I did it, I now know I can do it, and that’s good enough for me!



August 11th, 2009 at 2:13 pm
Congratulations!! I love accomplishments like that. Sometimes, it’s the little things…
August 11th, 2009 at 2:23 pm
I’m with you. I always let my husband drive. I get too uptight in traffic or on unfamiliar roads. Sad, I know.
Good for you for taking that challenge head on! I guess I should do the same next time we take a road trip…
August 11th, 2009 at 2:28 pm
I always let my hubby drive too, so I am very impressed! I would have pulled over. You should be so proud of yourself!
August 11th, 2009 at 4:34 pm
Yeah, driving is like moving, it’s sounded like a good idea at the time! Glad you’re home safely.
August 11th, 2009 at 9:43 pm
WOW!! well done!!!
August 12th, 2009 at 3:00 pm
You go girl!!! Driving in thunderstorms make me nervous too!
August 12th, 2009 at 10:40 pm
Oh I detest driving in the rain. And with passengers to watch my every move? HORRID. Glad you got home safely.